Almost all to apply for a job person in to apply for a job when blamable the experience that be defeated, can statistical number makes clear, when to apply for a job person after experiencing first time competition to fail, only the person of 10 ％ above is met be opposite because of this oneself " to apply for a job " ability generates suspicion, can when to apply for a job person was experienced 3 times or more second " to apply for a job " Where is unsuccessful hind? The person of 90 ％ above can arise " self-abased " psychology, suspect oneself to apply for a job ability even.

Very apparent, many to apply for a job nowadays person people " to apply for a job does not have the door " , its prime cause depends on them passing much ground oneself whether get the job, whether the hope that go to work is placed in " beg " on the word, and forgot the truly main factor in applying for however: Seek.

Heavy " beg " and light " seek " , to apply for a job person why of duty have?

Aid kind ever had said British writer: "Look in me, almost everybody can resemble a spider in that way, from the fort in silk is being spat to form his sky inside body. " actually, to apply for a job person so called " seek " , those who tell is this is planted " from the fort in silk is being spat to form his sky inside body " competence.

Can be in to apply for a job person in the person that show itself, it is forever " seek first beg after that " person. Their seek the self-confidence that depends on them above all, when they face failure, always say to oneself, "I am not failure, had not succeeded however " ; Next, depend on their bosom friend in competition knowing those to know him, their this kind " know " not be nowadays is modern " photo is packed " , " ego is vaunting " , " fill specialty in disorder " , " the appraisal that get a holiday " etc, analyse oneself and case of the other side seriously however, after understanding competitor characteristic " know " ; Again, always the person that be apt to is sought is the person that dares to seek surely; Some people are heard seek the person that think dispute must resemble buddhist to enter calm Jing Sai, or philosopher side wall is comprehended in that way seek, actually otherwise, in great majority when, "Seek " it is one kind faces the wisdom of field to develop only.

If some enterprise is when bagman of invite applications for a job, human affairs manager has not begun invite applications for a job to be pushed say " elevator became bad " , the person that is much as a result is not to stay in first floor to wait to elevator fosters cordial relations between states even if walked along a half to stop, only a few applicant of a few take 32 floors from first floor, these a few to apply for a job person be recruited by this company finally.

In reality, about to apply for a job person because of " seek " and if dirt is sanded,the story it may be said of the job that got others is longed for day and night and post is much, although they have each skill and capacity each in the course that seek, but, "10 thousand seek do not leave its ancestor " , they can be sought, reading how many book more at them, and depend on them all along not by " failure " pulling nose to go. In to apply for a job, no matter they sufferred what kind of setback, they are clear, "The vallation in oneself sky " go up in oneself body, perhaps be an unconventional smile, the raise one's hand that perhaps is an extraordinary and cast sufficient.
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